You are SO Talented

There's a compliment that many artists receive quite frequently, one that isn’t necessarily my favorite one to hear:

"You are SO talented."

Now, don't get me wrong, it's a well-intentioned compliment and a natural reaction when someone admires our work. But there are reasons why I, personally, don't often use this phrase to compliment other artists. And today, I'm going to share why. But first, let's explore the very foundation of this issue: what is talent, really?

By definition, talent is a natural skill. It's often seen as an innate ability, as if some individuals are stamped on the forehead with the words "talented artist" before they're even born. But is that truly the case?

I firmly believe that talent, in the context of art and creativity, is not a predetermined trait that some are simply born with, while others are not. I mean, I don't recall popping out of the womb holding a paintbrush, do you? No, our work as artists is not just the result of some magical innate gift. Instead, it's a culmination of our thoughts, beliefs, emotions, and life experiences. Just as your art reflects your unique life's journey, so does my work reflect mine.

The artists we admire the most—those whose work inspires us and leaves us in awe—do not possess more talent than you or any other artist out there. What they have is a relentless pursuit of their passion, dedication, and the determination to continuously learn and develop their skills. They may have had certain advantages or opportunities along the way, but they have also faced their fair share of challenges, which they've turned into valuable lessons that fuel their work.

The only talent that I believe I've possessed throughout my life, and perhaps it's one that has given me an advantage, is the talent for knowing what I'm passionate about. From a very early age, I knew I was meant to be an artist. That unwavering passion has been my guiding light. I've had the privilege of time to learn and gain skills and knowledge. It's allowed me to get better at using materials to create art that I consider "good." But that journey was not about an inherent talent; it was about dedication and a lifelong love for art.

So, why am I sharing all this with you today? Because I want us to shift the way we think about talent and the way we compliment our fellow artists. When we tell someone, "You're so talented," it can inadvertently downplay the years of hard work, practice, and learning that went into creating their art. It's as if we're attributing their success solely to something they were born with, rather than acknowledging the countless hours they've invested in their craft. Instead of "You're so talented," I'd rather hear and say things like, "Your dedication to your craft is inspiring," or "I can see the passion and effort you've poured into this piece."

By shifting our language, we're giving credit where it's due—recognizing the artist's commitment and celebrating their journey rather than pigeonholing them into the limiting category of "talent." Let's also remember that the concept of talent can be limiting for aspiring artists. When we believe that artistry is an inherent talent, it can discourage those who think they lack this mystical quality. But the truth is, anyone can become an artist. It starts with a spark of interest and evolves through dedication, practice, and learning. Art is not a club reserved for the "talented." It's a realm open to all who are willing to embark on the journey.

So, the next time you're about to compliment an artist, consider the words you choose. Let's celebrate their passion, their dedication, and their journey—because that's what truly makes great art.